sqldb: switch away from pq to pgx for Postgres

Completely switch to the better maintained pgx driver.

go.sum

@@ -365,6 +365,8 @@ github.com/jackc/pgx/v4 v4.0.0-pre1.0.20190824185557-6972a5742186/go.mod h1:X+GQ
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 github.com/jackc/pgx/v4 v4.18.2 h1:xVpYkNR5pk5bMCZGfClbO962UIqVABcAGt7ha1s/FeU=
 github.com/jackc/pgx/v4 v4.18.2/go.mod h1:Ey4Oru5tH5sB6tV7hDmfWFahwF15Eb7DNXlRKx2CkVw=
+github.com/jackc/pgx/v5 v5.3.1 h1:Fcr8QJ1ZeLi5zsPZqQeUZhNhxfkkKBOgJuYkJHoBOtU=
+github.com/jackc/pgx/v5 v5.3.1/go.mod h1:t3JDKnCBlYIc0ewLF0Q7B8MXmoIaBOZj/ic7iHozM/8=
 github.com/jackc/puddle v0.0.0-20190413234325-e4ced69a3a2b/go.mod h1:m4B5Dj62Y0fbyuIc15OsIqK0+JU8nkqQjsgx7dvjSWk=
 github.com/jackc/puddle v0.0.0-20190608224051-11cab39313c9/go.mod h1:m4B5Dj62Y0fbyuIc15OsIqK0+JU8nkqQjsgx7dvjSWk=
 github.com/jackc/puddle v1.1.3/go.mod h1:m4B5Dj62Y0fbyuIc15OsIqK0+JU8nkqQjsgx7dvjSWk=
@@ -554,8 +556,8 @@ github.com/rivo/uniseg v0.2.0/go.mod h1:J6wj4VEh+S6ZtnVlnTBMWIodfgj8LQOQFoIToxlJ
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 github.com/rogpeppe/go-internal v1.3.0/go.mod h1:M8bDsm7K2OlrFYOpmOWEs/qY81heoFRclV5y23lUDJ4=
-github.com/rogpeppe/go-internal v1.9.0 h1:73kH8U+JUqXU8lRuOHeVHaa/SZPifC7BkcraZVejAe8=
-github.com/rogpeppe/go-internal v1.9.0/go.mod h1:WtVeX8xhTBvf0smdhujwtBcq4Qrzq/fJaraNFVN+nFs=
+github.com/rogpeppe/go-internal v1.12.0 h1:exVL4IDcn6na9z1rAb56Vxr+CgyK3nn3O+epU5NdKM8=
+github.com/rogpeppe/go-internal v1.12.0/go.mod h1:E+RYuTGaKKdloAfM02xzb0FW3Paa99yedzYV+kq4uf4=
 github.com/rs/xid v1.2.1/go.mod h1:+uKXf+4Djp6Md1KODXJxgGQPKngRmWyn10oCKFzNHOQ=
 github.com/rs/zerolog v1.13.0/go.mod h1:YbFCdg8HfsridGWAh22vktObvhZbQsZXe4/zB0OKkWU=
 github.com/rs/zerolog v1.15.0/go.mod h1:xYTKnLHcpfU2225ny5qZjxnj9NvkumZYjJHlAThCjNc=